My Life with Aspergers and M.E. as a Husband and Father

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christmas,food/drink monday 2nd Decem.019

Posted on December 2, 2019 at 5:45 AM Comments comments (0)

we are in DECEMBER ..had a e.mail from a friend   DAVID H  who is from France  .telling me there is SNOW there ..i said how very sad i am not 

there .if i was we would have Snow Ball Fight 

such a DIFFERENT time of the year for   FOOD AND DRINK  ..soo tasty ., Mullied Wine .. all family meal TOGETHER ., what a filling  meal 

too have , wonderful food .drink while eating see wonderful snow out side  ON CHRISTMAS DAY  ..AND Christmas  NUMBER ONE IN THE 

CHARTS ...very very RARE  it has not happened for some time ..Sacsumas  i love ,


  mark

christmas tree.friday 22nd novem.019

Posted on November 22, 2019 at 3:45 AM Comments comments (0)

OUR TREE .DECORATIONS  UP OVER ONE WEEK AGO  ..fantastic  what a good  COLOUR  christmas  trees  are BEST TIME OF THE 

YEAR ,,should be TWICE A YEAR  ..love seeing the chritmas Fairy bright lights  around the tree .BRIGHTENS IT UP GREAT DEAL  .

my FRIEND .DAVID H  has not   got  NOTHING CHRISTMASY  YET  .shame on YOU .ooh yes he will be reading this i ADORE EVERY THING / 

ANY THING CHRISTMAS ..ware would children be with out christmas .OK  FAIR ENOUGH I AM ADULT ..i am EXSPECTING  a e.mail  from 

my friend David h too say .. he has got christmas cards writting them out .his christmas tree is up  decorations are up  .YOU have written out 

a chritmas card for ME MY FAMILY ...I, AM  SO CHEEKY ..THATS ME ..BUT  wait a cockin pickin min here .I, WOULD BE SEEING  PIGS 

FLY ..BEFORE ..any of these happen,.SNOW IS COMING .this sunday it is 1 OF DECEMBER here i  our town it will be OUR CHRISTMAS 

MARKET ,OHH YES  amazing .so really  really looking forward too 


   mark

Snow and Stars,monday 18th Novenber.019

Posted on November 18, 2019 at 5:30 AM Comments comments (0)

How very very Amazing they BOTH are .and so very very RARE  .i  often go out in the Evenings  go get our Family a take a way., all ways 

all ways LOOK UP .i , have a star up there OOH YES .it Hides .in the past couple years it has been getting a LOT BRIGHTER  .too think  that 

there are other Planets  BUT OURS   unlike any other  Stairs high up there .then on the ground Wonderful SNOW  Crispy ..Watery .Cold 

all to Fell. Touch .SEE ,. we take tooo much for GRANTED .,Snow very very SADLY been getting LESS AND LESS .Christmas  has been SO

MISSING  what it is there for  what makes it  so VERY DIFFERENT time of the year .A WHITE CHRISTMAS .how  Amazing would this be ..

the last White Christmas i can remember was 1986 I, THINK  .i was going to town on my Bike .laid  really HEAVY  ..we have  OUT Decarations 

UP  christmas TREE is UP ..i have had my Christmas T-SHIRT -TOPS ..SOCKS on  LAST MONTH  i started wearing these .CHRIST MAS 

FILMS AND CHRISTMAS MUSIC I AM CLUED TOO .these i put on  LAST MONTH  .look forward great deal too building snow men with OUR 

CHILDREN  . started Muled Wine Last Month  and Sacsumas Months AGO ., i soo so LOOK FOEWARD TOO THIS 


   Mark

Christmas ,..sunday 10th november .019

Posted on November 10, 2019 at 4:45 AM Comments comments (0)

MY BEST FAVORITE  TIME OF THE YEAR .,,SHOULD BE ,, TWICE A YEAR  . i ADORE  love   santa ..snow  .sacsumas  bucks fizz .it is so very  very  UNFAIR  too have too wait a whole year , christmas FILMS  christmas Music HEAVEN  .christmas socks .christmas jumpers  .christmas food 

HAVE I MISSED ANY THING  ..ware i live here i am called ,MR,Christmas  for me my family it is the only time of the year .with disability in our family

THAT PEOPLE ARE KIND TO OUR FAMILY MY WIFE AND M.E ..any other time nasty/horrible 

some of are decorations ARE UP .been up for past few weeks ,i have been WEARING  my  christmas top and socks SICK  LAST WEEK OF 

OCTOBER ..i am such a christmas fan  it is such a very very DIFFERENT  time of the year .SNOW  ..how very very FANTASTIC  ...

the Stars shine so much Brighter ..the smoothness of the crinckley  snow .EACH YEAR  hoping looking forward  too WHAT HAS NOT HAPPENED 

IN A LOT YEARS .WHAT HAS BEEN SO MISSING IN A LOT YEARS  ..Christmas Day  .SNOW WHITE  CHRISTMAS  FALLING  WHITE SNOW

   Happy Christmas too  Each and to ALL 


   MARK

Aspergers and Emotions,saturday9thNovem019

Posted on November 9, 2019 at 8:00 AM Comments comments (0)

TWO things i find MOST DIFFICULT  having Aspergers  

1,Emotions ..i be sat watching a film or a programme and within a few mins i will be sat there Crying Heavy snot running down my cheeks  .

and i can not see why/when /how  NOBODY UPSET ME  .nobody  said did any thing wrong .the film or television priogramme i watched 

was NOT upsetting .YET THIS WILL Happen a few times a day 7 days a week...IT DOES HELP ME TOO HAVE A GOOD CRY  i can be  

sat reading a newspaper or magazine WITH IN a few mins i will   be crying ANY TIME .ANY WARE .if i try too hold back then it  makes it 

a gret deal worsor .i am finding it so much better to have a good  cry few times a day much better tham having Melt downs 


2.Peoples views/judgements 

as time goes on my hands i come close too having around peoples necks  .i have m.e  ..ibs..migraines .Asthma.Hayfever Arthritis ,

Carpol tunnel syndrome  ..BOTH Bladder and Bowel problems and the list goes on health issues .WELL IT IS ..NOT ..HAVING THESE ISSUES 

the biggest problem/issue  is ..PEOPLE ..YES ,..PEOPLE ..WHO MAKE IT A MILLION TIMES WORSOR  not a little worsor  ,A MILLON TIMES

WORSOR .people turning  bad jokers  name calling .YET HOW WOULD THESE PEOPLE COPE .,DEAL WITH THESE HEALTH ISSUES 

7 DAYS A WEEK.some my health issues are very private BODY ISSUES  

                             Mark

having aspergers being Rude .monday 4 th nov019

Posted on November 4, 2019 at 4:50 AM Comments comments (0)

NO-WAY  .normal peoples views/judgements again   YET  IT IS OK FOR NORMAL PEOPLE TOO  say  Fuck- off   it is ok for  

them too talk about sex in great detail . it is all ok /fine  WELL I IS RUDDY WELL NOT  .how rude are THESE PEOPLE  

they say and do AS THEY PLEASE  .there jugdements and  views Again.. thes judgements ..views REALLY HAVE BIG NASTY  HORRIBLE 

EFFECT ON US  ..have normal people  NOT  got ANY THING NICE  TOO SAY OR DO ABOUT  AUTISM./ASPERGERS  ..

EVERY TIME  normal people  USE  AGAINST  Autism/.Aspergers  like being Rude  ..it is like NORMAL PEOPLE  ARE THAT..STUPID ..

THEY  think that  STANDING OR TALKING  to any person who has  Aspergers  .THEN THEY WILL  CATCH IT  .

how STUPID   are  they 


   Mark

Francesca.wednesday30th October.019

Posted on October 30, 2019 at 10:35 AM Comments comments (0)

Hello 


  there is word going around that your  Husband is Really ILL  ..say Hello 


    Mark



Francesca.wednesday30th October.019

Posted on October 30, 2019 at 10:35 AM Comments comments (0)

Hello 


  there is word going around that your  Husband is Really ILL  ..say Hello 


    Mark



Bodyissues,SexualAbuse.friday25thOCT019

Posted on October 25, 2019 at 1:00 AM Comments comments (0)

i think that  child sexual abuse is taken for GRANTED and people have FORGOTTEN  it is CHILDREN this is being  done too  ALL SO BECAUSE 

IT IS CHILDEN , HOW VERY VERY  VERY VERY VERY PAINFUL IT IS .childs BODY  compared too a GROWN Adults BODY ...a list things  

really lke the DAMAGE TOO THAT CHILDS BODY SCARES THERE FOR LIFE ,can NOT  say take a bath wash it all away .all these years later 

THE SHARPNESS OF THE PAIN IS STILL THERE .puts me OFF BALANCE ..the PAIN ALONE IS LIKE ..NO...OTHER ..it is like  MUMS  have 

BABIES  give Birth  very very often HEAR Mums say Pain  is like NO..OTHER .. Pain is there in years too come ..THIS IS VERY VERY  SAME PAIN 

AS SEXUAL ABUSE IS .....our Body  is WRECKED  Scares are EMPRINTED ..Sexuality is Wrecked  ..abused by DIFFERENT ADULTS  

seeing MYSELF as BI-Sexual .what is /was it like too be a Virgin  TAKE FROM ME .what is/was  it like too sit on the Toilet  have a  Wee /Shit 

like MOST People are ABLE TOO ..what is it like ...NOT... to be Able too HAVE TO WEAR A ADULT NAPPY  7 DAYS A WEEK ..people  take 

FAR TOO MUCH FOR GRANTED ..NOT only that  but BECAUSE THES ISSUES ,then  i get /have Bullying like Name CALLING ..

PissPot  Nappy Wearer  OR  Snot-Face due too very bad Hay Fever ..TOO ME it is NOT having these Problms/issues .TOP OF THE LIST .1000 

PERCENT IS PEOPLE MAKING THEM A MILLON TIMES WORSOR .THAN WHAT THEY ARE ..how would THEY COPE  Seven days a WEEK 

I. Am made too FEEL ..ASHAMED ,DIRTY,DISGUSTED .SCARED ,FRIGHTENED .DEGRADED .WHEN  BY ANY BODY  am i ASKED by ANY 

BODY .how are you .how are you feeling .need any Help /talk about any thing .any thing upsetting you Night MARES are they ok or Worsor 

YOUR F..... Well Joking .YET I ALL WAYS ASK OTHER PEOPLE .how are you .what you doing .any thing you would like too talk about /Ask 

VERY VERY  DISABILITY TREATMENT ..not be seen.not be heard .Shut up 

                              Mark

Aspergers ,THIRSTY .saturday .19th.019

Posted on October 19, 2019 at 5:10 AM Comments comments (0)

Aspergers /Autism  very very common BEING THIRSTY .well it is like being in a DESERT ..dry lips  dry throat dry mouth .NO .RESEARCH  

HAS BEEN DONE .yet it is so EFFECTING  .it is that dry  chokes you .wakes you up in the night .it makes Swallowing  very Difficult ..

well it is EASY being Sick  than trying too swallow .even trying too Talk id Difficult 

WHAT HELPS ME 


things out of the FREZZER /frozen LIKE ice lollies VERY OFTEN I WILL HAVE ONE WHOLE PACK ICE LOLIES .just too take some of the 

DRYNESS AWAY . i will put a can fizzy drink in the FREZZER  until it is ICE  ..Pure Juices  Orange or Pine apple are the best  WITH  AT LEAST 

FIVE ICE CUBES IN THE DRINK 

Holland and Barrett ,SULA  SWEETS .note Suger Free  .FRUIT MIX  is best one .there are Different Flavours in the Fruit Mix  packet  

it is Orange and Lemon .what i do is take one orange and one Lemon put the in my mouth Same Time  .MORE Flavour takes AWAY  the 

Dryness .,they are SUGER FREE  


   Mark


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