My Life with Aspergers and M.E. as a Husband and Father

Mark Kent

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Allergies,Hayfever. tuesday 1st july

Posted on July 1, 2014 at 6:55 AM Comments comments (0)

hayfever, have had all my life .12 months of the year, as i am getting older .it is gettting more and more snotty nosed and so very draining .

very very UNable too blow,eyes so watery.all ways it has FLOODED out. PEOPLE SEE ,laugh call very bad names like snotbox or snotface

it is PEOPLE who make these health problems a lot lot WORSOR .coping dealing with them .i only have too sneeze ,snot is all over me.

leaking all over.since i was Diagnosed with M.E. my Hayfever,Migraines and Asthma are all very very EFFECTING .for my Hayfever i take 

nose spray and tiny white tablets .REALLY ONLY HELP A TINY TINY BIT...the colour of snot can be confusing as well.JUST LIKE the colour

of Flem .just as confusing.on the internet there is a BLOG called SNOTTY NOSES i am so very impressed with this .and it is so very true .

the ladty that does it is a doctor and has 3 young children of her own .because i have Hayfever OFTEN it all so starts my Migraines off very 

badly .having Hayfever and Asthma it corses a lot problems TRYING TOO BREATH THROUGH THE NOSE.some times i only have too cough

runny snot down my cheeks .often I prefer the winter ,BUT NO TIME IS REALLY GOOD for my Hayfever.it is like the other day i sat down had

a swing BIN next too me .15 MINS AFTER SITTING DOWN .this swing bin was FULL TOO THE TOP OF SOAKING WET .DRIPPING SNOTTY

TISSUES,.what would OTHER PEOPLE do//Cope,


                                                 mark

allergies.Migraines. monday 30th june.

Posted on June 30, 2014 at 5:10 AM Comments comments (0)

Migraines i have had all my life.when i do get migraines i am ALL WAYS BEING SICK  .a lot sick .one thing i have noticed and this is said very

very RARELY ,when SICK is in my mouth //tasting sick.THE VERY SECOND PAIN GOES INSTANTLY .i do mean in INSTANTLY .i will say is that

there have been times ware migraine pain has been very very very bad .I HAVE MADE MYSELF SICK ON PURPOSE.. too take the PAIN  away

instantly.,there has not been any research as too why this happens . i have heard of it happening to other people .the pain with migraine it is

like your head is coming off.TABLETS ,..RARELY HELP WITH ME.tryed all sorts .sleep helps .BUT..NO NOISE.NO LIGHT ,i have too take NOSE

- SPAYS OFTEN .these DO CORSE Migraines so have too be careful .the longest time i have had a migraine for was three weeks .this was

about ten years ago. felt i was going blind .sick lot time .being sick yhis is, what starts my migraines .SMOKE DOES .can be from a field .garden

garlic all so starts my migraines off .VERY BADLY .hot weather.



                                             mark

allergies.Asthma friday 27th june 014

Posted on June 27, 2014 at 5:05 PM Comments comments (0)

Asthma ,i have had all my life .in and out of hospitals .very often.i find wizzing SCAREY,      very very  often being flem sick .it can be different

colours.think and often sickly.choking very often.i take ventoline inhaler and becotide inhalers. because i have Asthma then FOR ASTHMA UK

I AM A RESEARCH AND POLICY HOLDER,there is lots leaflets newsletters .books ,FOR ME ware Asthma is let DOWN a great great deal is

ON ALL INFORMATION ,LEAFLETS,NEWSLETTERS,BOOKS .ON FRONT COVERS IN ..CAPITAL LETTERS .SHOULD BE WRITTEN ..

..ASTHMA IS LIFE THREATENING ..,very TRUE, these simple words SHOULD BE ON COVER OF ALL ASTHMA INFORMATION ,IN CAPITAL

LETTERS ,and are they .NO WAY ,And yet how many People A YEAR ARE  passing away BECAUSE THEY HAVE ASTHMA.and all so there is

NO information about FLEM yet it is so EFFECTING with Asthma .one other point here MORE PEOPLE SHOULD TAKE PART IN RESEARCH

it is there too help for the FUTURE,.


i have a lot Allergies so what i will be doing is next talking about  HAYFEVER THEN MIGRAINES 


                                       mark

bladder and bowel problems. wednesday 25th jun014

Posted on June 25, 2014 at 5:55 PM Comments comments (0)

i have had bladder and bowel problems for a very long time .having Aspergers bladder/bowel problems are very common .BUT all so i have

m.e.,again very common for bladder//bowel problems.BUT ,having M.E.it does make bladder//bowel problems a lot lot worser.so very very 

draining as well.ONE THING I WANT TOO SAY HERE IS ,..I..DARE TO TALK ABOUT THESE PROBLEMS, unlike MOST .i have to wear ADULT 

PADS/NAPPIES.7 days a week.i will have 3 to 5 HEAVY accidents A DAY. very very often wetting..shitting myself BOTH AT THE SAME TIME.

in the past i have taken part in research all about Pads.i have these Results..i think that with pads /nappies there needs to be NEW LAWS.

like for instance .ALL PADS//NAPPIES SHOULD HAVE TUMMY BELTS IN SIDE THE PAD//NAPPY...YES,people have seen me have accidents

they have called me Piss POT, sHITFACE ..SO CALLED normal people .yet how would they COPE/DEAL with bladder//bowel problems seven 

days a week.i have these problems BUT,IT IS PEOPLE WHO MAKE THESE A HUNDRED TIMES WORSOR...very often i get nappy rash very

bad .it is very destessing some ways Shameful .needs too be talked about a lot lot more.I SHOULD NOT BE MADE TO FEEL  it is my fault 

it is very disgusting.i sit on the Loo just like any body esle does.I am a ADULT with bladder//bowel problems.


                                        mark

NO,having Asperger IS NOT BEING RUDE.22/6/014

Posted on June 22, 2014 at 6:00 PM Comments comments (0)

People say that having Asperger is BEING RUDE


no,NO WAY .   NORMAL people are very very rude .THIS IS FINE ..., Normal people say words like . P...off or F...off 


BUT me .a disabled person i say a word like SNOT OR SNOTTY NOSE  .people really stair .IT IS LIKE I HAVE COMMITED A CRIME .yet i have

heard normal people say snot or snooty nose THIS IS FINE .. when i sat snot or snotty nose UNLIKE MOST i say it because i UNDERSTAND 

to me having Asperger the words means what it says snot//snotty nose .UNLIKE MOST PEOPLE i do NOT say these words too upset //offend

having Aspergers words DO CONFUSE ME A GREAT DEAL .. there are PEOPLE who have TURNED AGAINST ME for just saying Snot or 

snotty nose,.these People should take a look at THEMSELFS how they are too other People what they say too other People .People have made

Judgements Against me for just saying Snot or Snottyy nose ,too understand beaware of Aspergers YOU HAVE TOO SAY WHAT WORDS MEANS

SO ..I.. CAN UNDERSTAND ,.myself . 


                            mark

M.E thursday 19 th june 014

Posted on June 19, 2014 at 5:30 PM Comments comments (0)

having M.E.

so much in common with autism//aspergers .with m.e it is like YOUR BODY IS TURNED IN SIDE OUT .every part is effected.yet because i am

NOT in a wheel chair .people see i have arms//legs but ,BUT.DO NOT SEE THE EVERY DAY EFFECTS OF M.E.,MOST DAYS i am in constant pain

i want too scream and scream.fighting 7 days a week just too stand on my own feet.i have a lot other health problems .most days i have a really good cry.THIS DOES HELP SO MUCH.i am not afraid to say.with m.e I HAVE BLADDER AND BOWEL PROBLEMS very common with  m.e 

all so really EMBARRASED //HUMILIATION soiling myself //urinateing 7 days a week .couple of times A DAY .having too wear ADULT NAPPIES 7 days a week.7 days a week having DIARROHEA  with IBS,painful ,often having TOO ASK IF A PERSON CAN HELP WIPE//CLEAN ME.very very

often runny shit DOWN MY LEGS ..and VERY OFTEN I WILL WET//SHIT MYSELF AT THE SAME TIME.i USED too be able too laugh at these 

problems .have not been able too for LONG TIME.instead i have found CRYING HELPS A GREAT DEAL.ok, i have m.e ,lot other health problems

IT IS..PEOPLE,..who make these a MILLION TIMES WORSOR .how would THEY cope //deal with say m.e 7 days a week.some ware like in a 

newspaper i was reading PEOPLE with M.E  can not die from it,WELL I THINK THIS IS VERY WRONG i think PEOPLE have and THEY DO .one of 

my very very WORST FEARS about having m.e is  BEING IN A WHEEL CHAIR ..NEVER , making it out of the wheel chair ever again.these days i 

can only do ONE THING like today i did our garden got the lawn mower out .about one hour 30 mins later i come in .15 mins later i was fast 

a sleep for 2 to 3 hours THIS IS A DAY 7 DAYS A WEEK. IN THE AFTERNOONS .most PEOPLE do NOT see this THE EVERY DAY EFFECTS OF

M.E .

                              mark

my wife .tuesday 17 th june 014

Posted on June 17, 2014 at 5:10 PM Comments comments (0)

why are people so nasty //very horrible too my wife Tabitha .people disrepect Tabitha .never say morning or hello .UNLESS TABITHA 

SAYS IT FIRST TOO THEM. crimminals are treated better than what Tabitha is and our family .Tabitha is all ways giving //helping a lot of

other people .all  Tabitha gets back is being treated like shit BY A LOT PEOPLE.Tabitha has NO friends ,being married too a disabled person

is a CRIME.criminnal offence,NOT ONE PERSON comes round or telephones askes Tabitha out  like would you like to go out or come round

mine for a cup tea.PIGS WOULD BE FLYING ,yet Tabitha is a lot lot more a person THAN MOST ARE .very very beautiful very very Attractive .very 

very very Fantastic Wife Tabitha is ,and very very Fantastic MUM too ISABELLA ROSE .LEWIS AND JASON.. my self and Tabitha have NEVER

been ACCEPETED AS A MARRIED COUPLE .not even when we was boyfriend//girlfriend .BY ANY BODY THIS IS.even our families .a lot lot 

more so by IN -LAWS ,


i love you even more each day  MRS.TABITHA KENT


                                             mark

my birthday ,thursday 12th june

Posted on June 11, 2014 at 5:10 PM Comments comments (0)

tomorrow i will be 52 years old

when i was 20 years old .i NEVER did think that i would make it to 30 years old


when i was 30 years old.I NEVER did think that i would make it to 40 years old


when i was 40 years old .I NEVER did think that i would make it to 50 years old

I am in MY 5O--ISH, well TOMORROW will be 52 years old,so wait and see if i

do MAKE 60 years old..


to get by VERY OFTEN I TELEPHONE MY DAD ,just too hear his VOICE .there

will be a time i will NOT hear it no longer..BUT VERY HOPEFULLY THIS WILL

BE  IN YEARS yet...,

                                                                           mark

monday 9 th june // brother-in-law

Posted on June 9, 2014 at 4:55 PM Comments comments (0)

i have a very good brother in law.TABITHA,S BROTHER .David ..we did not used to get on at all .BEcause HIS MOTHER WOULD TELL HIM too

corse ME trouble.BUT as David got older HE SAW I WAS NOT THAT PERSON HIS MOTHER WAS MAKING OUT I WAS..things really got lot 

better between us as David got older.David used to stay a great deal with US .often a few nights.NEVER GOT ANY MONEY FOR IT.i remember

so well the day ware David  TOLD HIS PARENTS .he went home from ours .went up too them and said too them,MARK IS NOT ANY WARE 

NEAR THAT PERSON YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT ,SAYING VERY BAD THINGS ABOUT .best one of his family David is.the very BAD SHAME is

Davids OWN MOTHER CORSING TROUBLE .even between HER OWN CHILDREN...do not get me wrong here MYSELF AND David do have 

disagreements ..like we had a big one a few weeks ago.i look at it as we both said things put them under the carpet and get on .I HAVE NO

FRIENDS AT ALL because of having Aspergers ..with David we have played POOL ,he NEVER  has made funny of me . told  a very bad joke 

about me .been rude to me.UNLIKE THE REST OF HIS RUDDY AWFULL FAMILY.


                               mark

moving house. sunday 8 th june

Posted on June 8, 2014 at 4:20 PM Comments comments (0)

David camerson .THE SECOND MR.HITLER .has made it impossible for us too move too Ely .i can not work. having 5 auties //uncles live there

counts for NOTHING .even lewis going to highfields counts for nothing .NEIGHBOURS are horrible//nasty to us.PEOPLE talk about US like

any thing here in MARCH ..if our daughter does have Aspergers she will be going too Highfields.Ely .Lewis goes there.but cost will be even more 

for US.parents meetings. 2,year.plays lewis is in 2,a year .it costs us  thirty pounds a visit --ISH,we are being Robbed NOT being able to move to

Ely .ware we would get a lot lot more HELP .i have relatives there.the HOUSE we live in RENTERD .tabithas parents .IN -LAWS FROM HELL .

own it .NO REPAIRS ARE NOT DONE.last year the RADIATER come OUT of the Wall..all that was done was .TWO GRIPS EACH SIDE OF THE

RADIATER .THEN SCREWED BACK IN.....,,in our bedroom heavy cracks BITS BRICK DROPPING ON OUR DAUGHTERS BED,,the boiler does

not work.have to come down stairs SET THE TIMER.it is costing us to live here.WE GET NO HELP.,WE HAVE NO HELP.,we are very HURT not

being able to move to Ely.Lewis wants to stay at Highfields school.people would NOT understand Lewis at any other school.



                                                        mark


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