My Life with Aspergers and M.E. as a Husband and Father

Mark Kent

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news, monday 12th october 015

Posted on October 12, 2015 at 9:10 AM Comments comments (0)

Jason ,our oldest has split -up with his girlfriend. heart broken jason has been.BEING HIS FIRST GIRLFRIEND  .

he is on the outlook for another,I WILL SAY IS ..SHE... DUMPED ,HIM ,how on earth would SHE feel if JASON had 

dumped HER twice this is and in front of her friends .


MY DAD is coming WOW ,last week in octiber well schools half term .two days, I e.mailed him back said too short 

will upset our children .get used to him then GONE.allso when will we see each other next .BEEN ONE YEAR .WILL IT BE

ANOTHER YEAR.we said see how you are .feeling ok.wait and see .,.hopefully stay longer .for his gran children .every body 

is getting older Yes.,very big reason too stay longer  .i can see it know 2 days stay off home .BUT  isabella and Alfie looking 

around for him like anything GETTING REALLY UPSET.we will see how things go .


                 mark

thursday 8th october 015 ..News

Posted on October 8, 2015 at 4:25 AM Comments comments (0)

jason and his girlfriend doing very very well.,his girl friend has a younger brother .we have NOT yet met/seen


 no news from my dad yet  what date he is coming here too stay with us .if i do not telephone my dad HE DOES NOT TELEPHONE US

79 ,DAYS Santa will be down the chimeleys 

i have noticed that very lately MY BOOK IS BEING DOWN LOADED BY PEOPLE ,.ooh WOW,I HAVE WRIITTEN A 2ND BOOK. 


lately i have e.mailed a few people TALKED OFTEN then NO REPLY  often  SHAME ON THEM would love to NAME THEM use me for

information THEY WANT .then NOTHING DUMPED .in a way it has made me THINK NOT DOING THIS BLOG ANY MORE ..DELETE IT ALL

this is so called NORMAL PEOPLE..i, would never treat people LIKE PEOPLE TREAT ME MY FAMILY 



                              mark

news,wednesday 30th septem 015

Posted on September 30, 2015 at 4:35 AM Comments comments (0)

met Jasons girlfriends MUM .,very nice .jason and his girlfriend doing very very well.THEY BOTH WENT TOO THE SAME SCHOOL  TEN

YEARS -ISH AGO.she remembers jason very very well and remembers LEWIS really well .,jasons girlfriend is really really nice .she has 

a younger brother .


MY DAD has said HALF TERM his is COMING HERE ...STAYING WITH US...WOW, the OUTLAWS will not like THIS AT ALL .being Tabithas

parents FROM HELL ITS SELF.,


RESEARCH any body intersted.

https;//www.surveymonkey.com/r/ASDTech-new-projects-opinions 



                 mark

day out .wednesday 22nd septem 015

Posted on September 24, 2015 at 5:25 AM Comments comments (0)

went to  ELY yesterday for the day as it was Lewis  school meeting .four o,clock afternoon .i was in Ely 9.45 .walked in to town.

look around .then from town walked to LITTLEDOWNHAM ,chat  a chat with my gran/grandad Passed away 10 years ago my gran

gran dad went LOT Earlier..then on to see my AUNT SUSAN for 3 hours .husband is in hospital.I OFFERED too get her lawnmower 

out do her back garden while i was there . leave susan said,susan made cooked me a meal.she has 2 dogs for company it was a nice day

was nice too see Susan .three o,clock i left as four o,clock meeting at lewis school .so i walked got there in TIME ...JUST,i did say to susan that

in October or Christmas my DAD is coming too ours staying at ours. trouble is transport  .lewis school they are very impressed with him and 

lewis is doing very very well there .4.30 meeting finished.i walked from there across town too train station back home too MARCH,got chips

while in town then Taxi HOME ..there is no place like home 


Jason is going very very well with HIS GIRL FRIEND. jason found her on face book .THEN SENT A MESSAGE TO ...HER MOTHER..asking 

if they can DATE,.  I,am VERY VERY VERY impressed how jason ASKED WOW 


                         mark

news,NEWS wednesday 9th september 015

Posted on September 9, 2015 at 4:40 PM Comments comments (0)

our oldest son JASON MARK  has a GIRLFRIEND ..not  am NOT saying her name as in this town ware we live PEOPLE ARE NASTY AND HORRIBLE TOO US 

after school today JASON brought his GIRLFRIEND too meet us .both have a lot in common.,I WILL SAY I HAVE BEEN VERY VERY IMPRESSED 

WITH HER .both go to the same College /in same class .i think they both are going to be together for long long time HOPEFULLY,we have not met

her parents yet. .our house too there house about three miles..any time she would like to come round VERY WELCOME we said to her.



                                mark GOOD LUCK MY BOY

TOGETHER,. saturday 5th septem 015

Posted on September 5, 2015 at 4:35 PM Comments comments (0)

THIS WEEK it is 19 YEARS Tabitha and i have been TOGETHER 


this is a MIRACLE ware the BASTARDS in-laws /// CORRECTION ,,, OUTLAWS are


I ,have NO in-laws /// OUTLAWS .Nothing too do with me



      mark

Allergies and Asperger syndrome.mon 31stAug 015

Posted on September 1, 2015 at 12:45 AM Comments comments (0)

before i do just going to say bit more about Thirsty and Aspergers 

because of the DRYNESS LIPS /THROAT it allso makes it VERY difficult trying to TALK /SPEAK. this happens OFTEN


Allergies and Aspergers 

is a TIME BOMB..real real bad mixture .having Aspergers makes Allergies lot lot WORSOR .our 12 year old son had Allergy tests two weeks ago

at peterbourgh hospital.Edith cavell.got the RESULTS few days a go .his Allergies are put as high as GRADE 6 .for a child IT IS HIGH more and more LIKE ME.lot time OFF School .eyes so watery hardly see out of them .you put a BIN next too him about 15 mins later the bin IS OVER FLOWING  with heavy runny Snotty TISSUES .very often all over his Bedroom ..BECAUSE I AM LOT OLDER i can cope /deal with it more .DOES  

COME REAL CLOSE TO MELT DOWNS HAPPENING.,school.home.going out for a day .12months this is happening for OUR 12 YEAR OLD AND

MYSELF..migraines are very common in our family Nausea .sickly ,.like myself allso Asthma both take Inhalers ,Both take SPRAYS for the hayfever

NO ,research has happen WHY ALLERGIES//ASPERGERS IS SO EFECTING  and it is VERY EFFECTING and because we are that Snotty Nosed 

Breathing is big problem  starting Asthma off AND MELT DOWNS//PANIC attact  being very very UN-ABLE too blow Your nose .WHO -ELSE HAS

THESE HAPPEN .WHAT DO YOU DO .COPE/DEAL with it .WHAT HELPS...WHAT DOES...NOT...HELP

                                     Mark

bladder/bowel andAsperger monday31stAug 015

Posted on August 31, 2015 at 4:45 PM Comments comments (0)

very very common again very bad mixture .NO,research has been done ,BUT AGAIN IT IS SO EVERY DAY EFFECTING. because i have BOTH 

bladder and bowel problems it is VERY DIFFICULT .VERY DRAINING.i have too wear speacial things MOST PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE TOO 

one of the worst things is the DIOREHIA very very Shitty very very Runny  AND SO PAINFUL lot time feeling VERY NAUSEA ,.i go too the toilet 

JUST LIKE EVERY BODY ELSE .,never been able to go .when i have Accidents THEY ARE REALLY HEAVY ONES .very very OFTEN i will have

Wet and Shit myself AT THE SAME TIME.,will be Soaking Dripping Wet ,.HOW WOULD ANY BODY ELSE COPE every day 7 days a week,24 hours

a day .WHAT would they do,.what helps them .what does NOT help them.,i happy too use Special Cream OFTEN get bad sores FRONT AND 

BACK.i used too wear Drainage bags ,HATED THEM made Sores a lot worsor .in the past i have had too have Suppositories or a few times had

too have Enimas,one thing that i have found that does HELP ME.is have a GOOD Cry,.AND FEEL A LOT LOT BETTER AFTER. and this is how I 

COPE/DEAL EVERY DAY .7 DAYS A WEEK.24 HOURS A DAY...if PEOPLE do not like what i say.how i say it .what i talk about .TOO BAD.i talk 

about MOST THINGS that a lot lot people WOULD NOT.,i am a lot lot better PERSON THAN WHAT MOST PEOPLE ARE,


                          mark


THIRSTYand Aspergers monday 31st Aug 015

Posted on August 31, 2015 at 7:05 AM Comments comments (0)

12 months year but worst times are THE SUMMER.,,,...LIKE BEING IN A DESERT 24 HOURS A DAY 7 DAYS A WEEK 

1.ice cubes in all cold drinks .when i can put  say CAN IN THE FREEZER

2,strong pure juices like TESCOS ORANGE JUCY BITS or OCEAN SPRAY .CLASSIC CRANBERRY   least 6 ice cubes

3,Holland and barrett ,SULA SWEETS ,.SUGER FREE,.there are different flavours BUT MIXED FRUIT best one


on a bad day i can been IN THE FREEZER SIX TIMES A DAY SUCKING ICE LOLLIES..even like one o,clock ///three o.clock in the morning

it is LIPS AND THROAT THE WORST .there has NOT been any research YET IT IS SO EFFECTING .our son started haing this problem 

cup TEA does help not as much as juices and ice cubes,OFTEN because it throat IS THIS DRY ..choking OFTEN HAPPENS....even feeling

Nausea sicky ..J2.S help best orange and passion fruit   6 ice cubes .SOME TIMES I WILL GET WHOLE ICE CUBE out of the FREEZER 

the COLDNESS of it  instantly takes AWAY the dryness.



                             mark

my mum,my dad,. sunday 30 August 015

Posted on August 30, 2015 at 4:45 AM Comments comments (0)

memories,.

we would be clued to television shows 70S ,Cilla Black.Ken Dodd and  Generation Game  GOLDEN AGE of television .even these days i have

DvDS .music CDS on Cilla black .Ken Dodd ..MUSIC my mum got me into ELVIS PRESLEY.that was it forever a big fan.for my dad music was

Johnny Cash .i even have a few of him .MY DAD IS VERY UN  AWARE OF ...a thing called love and ring of fire ,.my Brother SINCE DESERTED 

NO,.TRACE AT ALL. his music was the beatles .have a few of them .television for my brother it was ALL WAYS DR.WHO . our children love to 

watch this these days.my brother and i WENT TO DIFFERENT SCHOOLS.PAUL  knew i was DIFFERENT treat me very very well OFTEN 

STANDING UP FOR ME,.very very very RARE THAT HAPPENED BY ANY BODY.in THOSE DAYS ...People did NOT see/understand Disability

LIKE YOU WAS JUST DISABLED not like these days lot lot DIFERENT TIPES OF DISABILITY Autism, M.E ,MS,LONG LONG LIST THESE DAYS

so from that NOTHING WAS EXSPECTED OF ME .i, was NOT going too have any of that by a long long long way .my dad was a work a holic 

FOREVER REMINDING ME .was in the Army left worked /lived in South Africa some time .very RARE we talked ,just did NOT see every day 

effects of disability .Paul being THE NORMAL CHILD .normal School .normal job,normal life .the very Day I TOLD MY PARENTS IN THE 90S

THIS IS I HAD A GIRLFRIEND .this is when things really turned around THEY WAS STUNNED. started having lot more contact with me .THEN 

I SAID I AM GETTING MARRIED .great great deal CHANGED.       Past two weeks must telephoned my dad 15 times NO REPLY 


                       mark


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