My Life with Aspergers and M.E. as a Husband and Father

Mark Kent

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my dad. thursday 17th july 014

Posted on July 17, 2014 at 5:00 AM Comments comments (0)

i have not a clue when we will see each other next,our holiday in August we have asked my dad too come with US.i have said he does have 

GRANCHILDREN TOO SEE.it is only during say past two years we have really started talking.any thing past that was may be once a MONTH 

my dad has never really said if he is disappointed  haveing a disabled son can not work.OR possible could it be the OPPOSITE .my dad has

allways worked for what he has got.MANY TIMES HE REMINDS ME....i..would very much liked to worked.i do NOT think for a second I have ever

taken a hand out fronm ANY BODY.if i could not earn it  like doing job for a neighbour then  it would really effect me.this being the aspergers side

i have TRYED too work.my dad has been good just like my mum .these days i often telephone or my dad telephones US  .and beleave me this

NEVER used to happen.some thing very new.


for our holiday my dad,NOT THE IN-LAWS FROM HELL.my dad gave US seven hundred pounds ,..out of that we have two hundred left .IF WE 

ARE LUCKY..IN THE PAST 2 MONTHS .we have had  hospital appointments,school visits to lewis schoo Ely .these have been really effecting 

our money very very badley .very badley,next week we have ely apointment again this is for isabella well two weeks time.each visit has cost US 

fifty pounds NOT INCLUDEING FOOD/DRINK..buses NO .there used to be .it is train //taxi .jason lewis isabella often want toys .THEY ARE TOLD

NO. but some times because  aspergers is in our family THEY HAVE MELTDOWNS.but they are told NO .if it was not for the money from my dad  WE WOULD BE IN A LOT  MONEY TROUBLE  really would.we do try too save money best we can.when my dad reads this .i will sooner

or later get some bad words said to me .

                                  mark


research.. tuesday .15 th july.014

Posted on July 15, 2014 at 4:50 AM Comments comments (0)

i take part in a lot research from universities.i have a lot RESULTS ..INFORMATION.

if any body would like any of the following information.


..takeing part in research,what happens,how to take part .Allergies.hayfever.asthma.migraines.Abuse..bullying. arthritis .M.E.chronic fatigue.

incontinence bladder/bowel problems .autism/aspergergers .sex.puberty ,sex education.tempiture change.meltdowns.phobias.discrimination

eating disorders .anorexic..wearing nappies ADULTS.noises,playing with poo,sleep trouble.books..authors,mucophilia,obsessions.hobbies,

interests.cousellors,trichotillomania,researchers.universities,sensory,sexuality,parents ,being a father.


all of these AND MORE effect me MOST DAYS.if a person does not  take part in research,how can people help or understand


                                                     mark

Ely friday 11th july 014

Posted on July 11, 2014 at 6:45 AM Comments comments (0)

NOT .being able too MOVE TO ELY .has upset Tabitha and Myself a great great deal. it has every thing there for Lewis,Jason and Isabella rose

I have family friends there. Lewis could see his school friends .THIS LEWIS CAN NOT DO WE LIVE IN MARCH. this month alone tabitha has

too go too highfields school Ely .THREE TIME .this  monday for Lewis .then in 2 weeks lewis has sports day  and next we have a appointment

for Isabella to see a speaclist end of july .these 3 trips will cost us one hundred pounds .meals /drink/.need to eat .drink.NOBODY OFFERS .

People would  EXSPECT IT FROM US..,i wish that I could work .then we could just pack our bags and MOVE ,.it is so very very UNfair.it is the 

innocent people who get hurt the very most.FORGET ABOUT MYSELF AND TABITHA HERE.it is OUR CHILDREN we are thinking of.IT is very

very RARE that ANYBODY COMES TOO SEE US HERE WARE WE LIVE...it is EVEN RARER for ANYBODY i do mean ANYBODY too ask us out

in this town ware we live PEOPLE TREAT US LIKE SHIT .another reason for moving,by far ELY for us best place.WOULD HAVE BEEN,and most 

of all WE WOULD BEEN AWAY FROM THE IN-LAWS FROM HELL...living here it has been effecting OUR CHILDREN BADLY as well.isabella is in

with us. jason and lewis SHARE ,no .and i mean NO REPAIRS ARE DONE.we think that these are very very GOOD REASONS .too make it a 

lot lot WORSOR...david camerson ,the priminister  has made new rules  AGAIN EFFECTING THE INNOCENT .. in time he will be VOTED the

WORST prime minister THIS COUNTRY HAS HAD..

any body have any thing too say

                                                            mark

isabella rose ,thursday 10 th july

Posted on July 10, 2014 at 4:50 PM Comments comments (0)

our daughter age 2 years old and 8 months .has been haveing tests too see if she is effected by autism//asperger .BECAUSE it is in our

family.we have been told by a SPEACIALIST that isabella rose does NOT, ...NOT , have autism //aspergers very very good news .BUT 

isabella rose is A SENSORY SEEKER ..sensory problems.let me take you back too the Asperger .WE was told isabella rose does NOT have

autism//aspergers BECAUSE isabella says things like ....thank you.no thank you .i love you..mummy,daddy. look at photos and say who is 

a family member,. BUT WAIT WAIT A COCKIN PICKIN MIN HERE ,....I..have  aspergers , i very very very often say thank you,no thank you . i 

love you ...look at photos and say who is a family member...SO DOES THIS MEAN ...I...DO..NOT...HAVE ,.ASPERGERS..researchers ..

speacalists really need too take a look at this in a lot lot more detail .,THIS IS WARE SPEACIALISTS AND RESEARCHERS are really really

NOT SEEING ,MISSING THIS AREA TOTTALLY,people with Aspergers can tell these things.see these details .BUT MAYBE IN  DIFFERENT

WAYS ,.


                                mark

my wife,Tabitha. monday 7th july.014

Posted on July 7, 2014 at 5:00 AM Comments comments (0)

Tabitha is VERY VERY BULLIED by a lot lot PEOPLE ..Encludeing HER OWN MOTHER AND FATHER .it is like if tabitha sees a person say

in Town .if Tabitha DOES NOT SAY HELLO OR MORNING FIRST .THEN then will NOT SPEAK .some PEOPLE HAVE RAN ACROSS THE

STREET just so that THEY DO NOT SEE HER.and what has Tabitha done so very wrong too deserve this ,MARRIED TO A DISABLED PERSON 

Disabilities in our family.A LOT PEOPLE THINK if they STAND NEXT TOO US ..THEY WILL CATCH AUTISM//ASPERGERS OR M.E.and these

PEOPLE CALL THEM SELFS SO CALLED NORMAL.every body and i mean EVERY BODY distances themselfs FROM US .MY WIFE ME.OUR

FAMILY .m ost people make us feel VERY VERY UNWELCOME WE DO NOT FIT IN,crimmals are treated a lot better THAN OUR FAMILY IS.

my wife Tabitha does NOT,...NOT have one so called friend who would say .would you like to come around for a cup tea or have a tea in town

or even go too the pub .NOT ONE FRIEND .these PEOPLE are busy getting at Tabitha out family. putting Tabitha down.very very SAD B-----

IN DEED THEY ARE,i have a fantastic wife , PEOPLE USE TABITHA when THEY WANT SOME THING .NEVER .NEVER GET any thing back 

NOT even a thank you,or even a offer of helping US .but ,people EXSPECT IT from my wife //us,


                                   mark

Eatingdisorders.Anorexic. monday7th july.014

Posted on July 7, 2014 at 4:35 AM Comments comments (0)

i USED too be very very Anorexic.i have NOT made myself sick for over nine years.asperger syndrome and eating disorders are very very 

common.like MOST THINGS SENSORY,WHEN I USED TOO make myself sick I FELT SO MUCH BETTER .because i was different.hurt .upset

MOST DAYS .afraid of things.making myself sick took those away.one problem is that when a person does make themselfs sick IT IS PART OF

THERE EVERY DAY LIFE ,.they LIKE IT AND ENJOY IT.i would make myself sick on purpose SOME TIMES 5 TIMES A DAY and MORE .nearly 

passing out a few times..i would be COVERED IN SICK.clothes ,hands .face ,a few times it was difficult too STOP MYSELF .but i did NOT want too.

SOME PEOPLE WHO HAVE Aspergers and ANOREXIC. talk about on their blogs .fine helps a lot people .BUT AND BIG BUT IS some NEVER DO

WHAT THEY DO DO is say things like my Anorexic is started badly today or ooh, i have just been sick down the LOO.it IS NOT HELPING OTHERS 

OR HELPING THEM SELFS .they are NOT talking about how they cope//deal with it seven days a week.why//how they become Anorexic..it is NOT 

helping OTHER PEOPLE,.one reason why I WAS BADLY Anorexic was I WAS VERY BADLY BULLIESD .by different PEOPLE.with a person like 

myself  I AM NOT AFRAID TOO TALK A BOUT ANY SUBJECT AT ALL ..I DARE,as people will see i am talking about Anorexic i have talked about

sex .if any body would like too ask me any thing very welcome too.if a person does not ask .HOW CAN THEY UNDERSTAND OR HELP .


                                                                mark

sex friday 4th july 014

Posted on July 4, 2014 at 4:55 AM Comments comments (0)

very very RARE SUBJECT with autism///asperger syndrome . so far i have taken part in TWO researchs for autism/aspergers all about

SEX .in both over 600 people took part .myself being one of the victims.VERY VERY SADLY NOTHING AT ALL FROM ENGLAND.

BOTH was on the internet ,

1.from.Canada ,isabella henault

2,from Australia . I HAVE THESE RESULTS.


BOTH was very very good and BOTH was very very DETAILED .and very much needed too be with autism//aspergers .i WAS VERY VERY VERY

IMPRESSED WITH BOTH .and i will say it does need a lot lot more research LIKE HERE IN ENGLAND .with ANT DISABILITY AT ALL .most

normal peoples views are STILL LIKE HITLERS.should NOT have a boyfriend//girlfriend..get married .have your own children .OR BE GAY and

DISABLED . and yet by a long long way it is FINE.OK .FOR NORMAL PEOPLE.


                                 mark

normal people. friday 4th july 014

Posted on July 4, 2014 at 4:25 AM Comments comments (0)

they are ALL WAYS useing things AGAINST ME .some thing i have NOT said some thine i have NOT done.if this is normal .i am so very glad 

that I AM NOT,it is like about six years ago i was in a car with say a person .and they said too me the one thing they hate about having a medical

problem like a syndrome in their family is  THEY PLAY WITH SHITE ..,i felt very hurt . making me feel very very bad .I HAVE SAME PROBLEM,

they sort of DECRADED ME ,it was NOT my fault . it was NOT me too blame.i was being MADE TOO FEEL ASHAMED .they turned round in the

car and said this TOO ME,yes ,what they are saying DID HAPPEN  TOO ME .but  too rub it in my face too make me feel as little as possible 

too make that judgement .i felt very very  BAD FOR A LOT TIME .STAYED AWAY ,PEOPLES VIEWS ,WHAT THEY SAy ,their ATTITUDES are very

very very very very OFTEN EFFECTING MYSELF AND MY OWN FAMILY ..i so DETEST people ,PEOPLE make things A MILLION TIMES WORSOR


                                                mark

Books, friday 4th july 014

Posted on July 4, 2014 at 4:10 AM Comments comments (0)

i have written 2 books so far, my first all about the research i take part in .is on this blog.DIFFICULT TOO READ because it is done book 

style. MY SECOND BOOK is finished . forward has been done,this is about. OBSESSIONS.SENSORY AND ALLERGIES.this 2nd book i do NOT 

want done like my first book style ,.having said this it is making it very difficult for me ,because last year I WAS DIAGNOSED WITH...

OSTEOARTHRITIS, just picking up a pen INSTANT PAIN my writting hand as well.as i am typing pain is shooting through .this is on top of

having M.E. witch is very very painful in its self .i will have a think of if there is a much easy way of putting my second book on my blog.


                                             mark

researchers,professers.universities. tues.1st julu 014

Posted on July 1, 2014 at 5:25 PM Comments comments (0)

our daughter ,isabella rose has been diagnosed with SENSORY PROBLEMS...., we was told isabella does NOT have autism//aspergers

BECAUSE  isabella can tell faces say i love mummy//daddy ..BUT ,WAIT a cockin pickin min here  PEOPLE WITH ASPERGERS it does take

a lot lot time BUT THEY CAN TELL PEOPLE FACES AND SAY I LOVE YOU MUMMY//DADDY .all so another thing here is ware RESEARCH IS

GOING VERY VERY WRONG .people with aspergers UNDERSTAND ,LEARN.BECOME AWARE .WHEN THINGS ARE EXSPLAINED IN AS MUCH

DETAIL AS POSSIBLE ..FACE TO FACE, HANDS ON HANDS . yet researchers,professers,universities ARE GREATLY MISSING THIS OUT.

another thing is researchers,professors,universities should start ASKING ..US..WHAT WE WOULD LIKE ,it works 50/50 ,or should do .

universities should have OPEN DAYS SAY 2 A YEAR AT LEAST ONE .for volunteers who take part in the research.



                                  mark


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