Mark Kent

LAST PART OF THE INTERVIEW

9.sex,puberty.autism.asperger.having a son with Autism what are your views on this.what will you do/cope ,find out things sex education wise

REPLY,,,.,.Alfie is only 7,so we have all of this too come.i admit i am worried about how puberty will effect Alfie .like all parents i want my child to go on too have a loving.fulfilling relationship,but i dont know.so young we cant know.how much Alfie will be able to understand sex.will he understand the concept consent.for example our biggest con cern right now is safe guarding.Alfie is vulnerble .he trusts every one.if a older child or a adult were to harm him he might not understand.what was happening or that it was wrong .and we would have no words too tell him //us,.we are very 

cautious about leaving Alfie any where or with any one we do not trust absolutery.

NOTE FROM ME,very rare subject for Autism/aspergers very very well said Alison 

1o.question for you too ASK ME//,,,   IF I HAD THE CHOICE AND COULD TAKE AWAY MY ASPERGER SYNDROME .WOULD I DO SO.IF .NOT WHY NOT ..

MY REPLY,FOR MY FAMILY , i wish i had not had aspergers .wish i could work .earn money for my family .have our very own house//home

BUT THEN THERE IS ALL WAYS A LOT LOT WORSOR PROBLEM I COULD HAVE BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH ,

FOR MYSELF .People NEVER show me Empaphy .thank you ,please,how are you.sorry,BUT I SHOW PLENTY OF THIS TO OTHERS.

i,thank god that i am NOT normal. it is NORMAL people who use me .it is all around them.what they say,treated like SHIT.crimmals are

treated a lot better.when people have gotten what they want from me .THATS IT THEY DROP ME NOTHING ELSE TOO DO WITH ME

as i am getting older I CAN NOT STAND PEOPLE .HATE//DETEST THEM .PEOPLE HAVE DONE THIS..very very very often i go out of my way 

too help ...IF I TOOK AWAY MY ASPERGERS ,,,...i would not be me//myself .two books I WROTE would never been writteni would NOT see the

world as very different that i do FROM NORMAL PEOPLE.

11.do you think that make -up should be seen as a disability ..by this i mean..creams .eye shadow .moisturizers

REPLY,..i think this is a very interesting question.and not something i had considerd before,my view is that some people have physical or

cognitive impairments and some people are just different .but they are not them selfs.disabilities,disability is creatably socity other than intrinsic to the person.this is because society is set up in such a way that it is harder for some people to access services orplaces or work

or generally take part like railway stations having no step-free accessthat disabled wheelchair users ,so you could argue that having a society

that lobies female beauty and yet rules could be disablling for some women.making it impossible for them too go out in society with out make

up .mke up,moisturisersbut i think it is a stretch .i use moisturisors .and wear make -up.but i do not think i do so because socity attitude .disabilities ,no.i would be interested to hear the views of your other readers views on this.though ....Alison

                               finished..ooh.yes                                mark.x