Mark Kent

PART THREE,

1,meltdowns,how these effect you ,the every day effects you have

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my melt downs usually involve scratching.biting my hands ripping my hair out.slapping myself across the face and screaming .after a melt down i am exhausted .and need too sleep for several hours to feel better again.i have exserienced isolation at school.when wanted to sit near me and that was horrible .nowadays i prefer my own company a lot and can self isolation with any problems,rather than a result of other peoples ignorance.

2,research have you taken part in any .if yes what, if no why not.

replyi have taken part in genetics research .several years ago with cambridge university .where myself.and family members swabbed the insides

of our cheeks and had the swabs sent off for dna testing.to see if there was A genictic link too aspergers as far as i know in the case of my immedate family.i am the only one who showed genetic link .but it was a long ago now and i cant remember properly.i no longer have the time too 

do research really. although  i always read the latest research.

3.skin picking ,how do you cope

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i pick my skin when i get stressed or anxious .the worst time was a couple of months ago. in september when i went for a job interview WHICH I DID NOT GET,when i scratched my knuckle so much that i still have a scar there today .it scabbed and took two weeks to heal i find that it helps me focus some times when i am anxious full meltdown.but it is still a destucktive habit

4.you,have bowel problems.talk about them.bloating.painful.when did it start.have you had any bullying ,stairing.bad jokes

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my bowel problems are not as severe as yours .they started 7 years ago .after i had a fever.got lot worsor,i get bloated.going to the toilet can be painful .i dont have any continence .and dont experience any accidents ,i have never recieved any bullying or nasty jokes related to my bowels .i have been on medication for this in the past.namely buscopan and medeverine i dont take any medicines as i dont feel that they helped.i do get through  cycles of feeli ng very NAUSEA at night time in pasrticular,but i am never actually sick with it

5.a question for you too ask me

how do i find the courage to be so honest on your blog about how my conditions effect  you .there are some things i could never talk about 

on my blog,because i would not want my friends //family knowing them,..so i am impressed that you are so honest on your blog.

my reply.

 i am older than you .been there had that happen .done this.,i say how i feel ,VERY FEW PEOPLE DO ,i am the person with problems like

aspergers,..M.E. ,bladder/bowel issues.allergies.I HAVE THESE EVERY DAY EXSTREMELY BAD MOST DAYS..if people do not like what i

say how i say it .it is there problem.I take people for who they are.not .NOT,there problems ,disability,HOW EVER,I NEVER AND I MEAN 

NEVER GET THAT BACK FROM ANY BODY AT ALL .,

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