Mark Kent

really having to dig deep to write this one.if i do not will not be done full stop.next week it will be ONE YEAR AGO 

since my mum passed away.can hardly beleive it.so far what has helped me is i have asked AUNTS/UNCLES too come

see US ,.as mostly i go to see THEM,  aunt Lynn and colin come yesterday.my dad is away on holiday.I KNEW for a long time

it was like i was given a sign .my mum WOULD go before my dad,anther thing i did was my dad gave me some pages of my mums

address like friends.i wrote to some few weeks after my mum passed away.BUT I DECIDED to finish the address so i sent TEN 

CHRISTMAS CARDS OUT of the remaining..been getting GOOD REPLYS.if people can not stay in contact how can i inform them when 

my dad does go.my mum had very good life ..keeps me going,it is very very hard /difficult too any body who has Aspergers .how they cope

deal with it when family passes away.NO RESEARCH HAS BEEN DONE..to ANY BODY WITH ASPERGERS I SAY THE FOLLOWING

1,keep/stay in contact as much as possible with family,relatives//aunts/uncles,IN-LAWS ONLY IF YOU HAVE GOOD ONES .i do NOT .

2.get them too come see YOU.,really look forward too it.

3.have a cry.IT REALLY HELPS.i think even more so having aspergers.I THINK having a cry has HELPED STOP ME FROM HAVING COMPLETE

MELT DOWNS,..ALL SO THINK that that person who passed away .WOULD NOT WANT TOO SEE YOU GOING DOWN HILL,witch many PEOPLE

have been waiting for TOO SEE ME,

                              mark