Mark Kent

A question for you too ask me

Who first started discussing sexuality education with you,what tools did they use ,were they helpful 

MY REPLY 

as a child i saw MY BODY changing ,HATED.DETESTED.seeing other people nude/naked HELPED SO MUCH

NOBODY first started discussing sexuality education .ONLY TOOLS ,THE ONLY HELP ///SEEING PEOPLE 

NUDE/NAKED..

we are often in contact.i  have written letters on a very rare subject ,aspergers and sex. you have read these letters .what do you think .what has impressed you the most

REPLY

i have certainly read each letter  you have sent me,what i am all ways impressed by is your sex awareness ,you know what has worked for you.what has not.and what makes you happy...in work shops  i all ways share two things with you.the list of sensory driven sexual acts.it is quite over welmming .and really made me think about how hard sex can be when sensory integration is a challenge...i all so share what you wrote ////

the sexual abuse was the only education i ever had,...it shocks me and aches my heart every time i share it with some thing this drives me too try to make sure that neverever happens too another individual/so i will keep that statement close to my heart .and keep sharing how unacceptable this is.,and respond to it as a call to action .a call to change ,a call for education.

a question for you to ask me

what would you tell a teenager with aspergers about what you learned in life .about relationships .about dreams about hope.

MY REPLY

get your self diagnosed...DO NOT SELF-DIAGNOSE,talk about your meltdowns EVAN AS A ADULT .sex understand the body.BE NUDE BE

NAKED AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE,.even as a ADULT ,relationships will happen .I WAS IN MY 30-ISH WHEN MINE HAPPENED

people with aspergers are very very aware about sex .but things like Puberty /understanding their own bodies IS HELL ..very very big disater..why do you think that this is

REPLY.

as a teacher ,i all ways belive that every thing comes down too education.i think that puberty is a very difficult time for every adolescent ,thyere are a lot of unexspected changes .and those changes come with new smells,feelings,hair,body changes.,i can not imagine how scary that would be if no one exsplained why it was happening .or what could do about it.i think that education should happen before puberty begins .so that young children know what is coming.

a question for you to ask me 

if a fairy come down too you tomorrow and offered to take away your aspergers .would you say yes.why,,,.

MY REPLY

when people ask me say things like this BE PREPARED FOR THE ..UN..EXSPECTED,..

i would say 100 PER CENT ,//NO,NO,NO,,i would NOT be me/myself. two books i wrote would NOT be written,I WOULD NOT BE TALKING TO 

YOU EMILY ,.i would not be helping Parents who have children with Autism/Asperger syndrome.I would NOT Hare //Normal People like the 

IN-LAWS for instance ,i would NOT have the most Wonderful WIFE AND CHILDREN in the WORLD ,..as a person with Aspergers I have far too 

much HATE ///HURT from Normal People .THIS HOLDS ME TOGETHER AS A ADULT WITH ASPERGERS,,,

                                  Finished                 MARK